Long Term Care: What Families Need to Know

Published on 14 March 2026 at 16:52

Why Do We Need to Consider about Long Term Care?

Many families assume long-term care is something they will figure out later in life. Unfortunately, when a life crisis happens suddenly, families are often forced to make difficult decisions quickly — sometimes draining their savings in the process. Long-term care planning helps individuals and families prepare for the possibility of needing help with daily activities later in life. Planning ahead can protect your financial security, reduce stress for your family, and give you more control over how and where you receive care.

 

The Reality of Aging in California

California has one of the fastest-growing senior populations in the country. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, nearly 70% of adults age 65 and older will need some form of long-term care during their lifetimes. 48% of people received Long-term care, while many rely on unpaid family support. 56% of Americans turning 65 will develop a disability serious enough to require long-term care services. 

Many people eventually need help with Activities of Daily Living (ADLs) such as:

    • Bathing
    • Personal hygiene and grooming
    • Toileting and continence
    • Eating and Feeding
    • Dressing
    • Transferring
    • Transportation
    • Housekeeping

For some families, this support comes from their adult children. For others, it may involve professional caregivers, assisted living communities, or skilled nursing facilities if they were able to plan ahead. Planning early helps families explore these options before they become urgent.

 

The Cost of Long-Term Care in California

In California, the typical costs in California can be:

  • In-home care: $6,000 – $8,000 per month
  • Assisted living: $5,500 – $7,500 per month
  • Nursing home care: often $10,000 – $12,000+ per month

For many retirees, these expenses can quickly consume a lifetime of savings. Without a plan, families often face the painful decision of selling assets or using retirement funds to pay for care.

 

A Common Misunderstanding About Medicare

Many people believe that Medicare will pay for long-term care. Unfortunately, Medicare typically covers short-term rehabilitation, not ongoing custodial care. State government funding programs evaluate applicants strictly on eligibility and grant a limited number of hours annually as supplemental support, such as respite care for primary caregivers or In-Home Support Services.

When long-term care is needed, families usually pay through:

  • Personal savings
  • Long-term care insurance
  • Family contributions
  • Government programs like Medi-Cal

However, qualifying for Medi-Cal often requires careful financial planning. Without planning ahead, individuals may be required to spend down much of their assets before becoming eligible.

 

Why Planning Early Makes a Difference

Many people think long-term care planning is only for the very wealthy. In reality, it is often middle-class families who benefit the most from planning ahead.

Planning early can help:

  • Protect a portion of your savings
  • Create a strategy for paying for care
  • Reduce financial stress for your children
  • Give you more control over your care decisions
  • Avoid crisis planning during emergencies

When families wait until a medical emergency occurs, many planning options may already be limited.

 

A Personal Decision That Impacts the Whole Family

In California, many adult children live far away from their parents or balance careers and raising their own families. When long-term care needs arise suddenly, it can place tremendous pressure on loved ones to coordinate care, finances, and medical decisions. Having a plan in place allows families to focus on supporting each other rather than scrambling to solve problems. It also gives you the opportunity to express your wishes clearly — something many families are grateful for when difficult decisions arise.

 

When Should You Start Planning?

The ideal time to start long-term care planning is before a health crisis happens. Many experts recommend beginning discussions in your 50s or early 60s. However, it is never too late to explore your options. Even families facing immediate care needs may still have planning strategies available. Planning ahead can make the difference between reacting to a crisis and approaching the future with confidence and peace of mind.

 

Have questions about long-term care planning in California?

Every family’s situation is different. Speaking with a professional who understands the legal and financial aspects of long-term care planning can help you explore options that protect both your care and your assets. Long-term care planning is not just about preparing for medical needs. It is about protecting your independence, your financial legacy, and the people you love.

 

Reference
Cleveland Clinic. (2024).
Activities of daily living (ADLs) and instrumental activities of daily living (IADLs). https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/activities-of-daily-living-adls

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. (n.d.). How much care will you need?

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